This pose set in particular was a real pain in my ass, I had to test it like 6 times before I got it right.
Even now it takes a little bit of fiddling to get them lined up right, but the good thing is they don’t go flying around when you try to change the angle a bit since I at least have them lined up right with the orientation point. This one has a space between his hand and her hips.
The reason for that is the female sim I made this for was wearing a dress that had a bit of volume so otherwise his hand would clip.